Top Ten Things Moms Should Know Before Launching Their Kids
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Are you ready for it?
Hey there, momma!
So, picture this: your kiddo is on the verge of spreading their wings and taking on the big, wide world. Exciting, right? But, let's be real, it's also a bit nerve-wracking. As Christian moms, we know there's more to this launch than just packing bags and giving pep talks. It's about trusting God and preparing yourself for the biggest shift in your motherhood. So, before we send our little ones off into the unknown, let's chat about the top ten things moms need to know before launching their kids.
1. Allow your child to be autonomous:
No grown child wants you to be a hovering, helicopter mom. That’s just annoying! It’s normal when your child wants his independence and control over his own decision. This is the goal of parenting. They want to become their own person and you need to let them become just that. You gotta get out of the way. Even if it means them moving away or heading in a direction you wouldn’t select. You must let them fly.
The Big Question: What are you doing to encourage your child to make choices for his life?
2. Don’t make this season about you:
This transition is not about you; it’s about your emerging adult and what is best for him. There will be time for you to process transitional grief, but don’t do that with your child. That will hurt him. Instead, Brenda Yoder, author of Fledge said, “Be the kind of mom you needed when you young. This will ensure your child feels loved and supported. This is important! It’s what they need most! You’ll have time to handle your emotions alone, with God.
The Big Question: What can you do to remember this is about your child not you?
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